Carbondale - Galconda [back]

I spent the weekend waiting for Alex, in Carbondale with my cousin Nancy and her son Jake who drove down from Bloomington, Illinois. Nancy brought down my care packages (thank you everyone), fresh-baked chocolate chip cookies, and Jake, her very active 21-month old baby, so I'm not going to say the weekend was restful, but very fun. It has made my trip extra special being able to spend some time with my cousins along the way.

When Alex arrived on Monday night, he had flown in from San Francisco to St. Louis, then rented a car and drove to Carbondale. It was great to finally have him join me. Before leaving on my trip, I kept my fingers crossed that he would meet up with me at some point along the way, but it seemed highly unlikely. Then, around the middle of July, I talked to him on the phone and he gave me the news that he was just laid off from work. While I tried to express the necessary condolensces, my efforts were thinly veiled with the excitement that now he could join me on my trip. We had both worked for the same company and experienced the extreme highs, lows, excitement and ultimate frustration that came from working at a one-time wallstreet darling, Internet company. Whenever you lose your job, it's a scarry and uncertain future, but with the right attitude and proper perspective, it can be a fantastic opportunity to take a leap of faith. Alex needed some time to gain that perspective, but with the ultra-supportive encouragement from his wife Ashley, Alex decided to ride with me for the last leg of my trip. Now he was in Carbondale.

Before Alex arrived, I endured approximately 3 hours of rain. While it was hot, it was also dry. Many states in the west are experiencing the worst draught in fifty years, which is bad for crops, but good for biking. But of course once Alex arrived, so did the rain. We had planned on starting out on Tuesday morning, but when we woke up, it was pouring. The weather channel said it would rain all day, which it did, 3 1/2 inches of rain, plus thunder and lightening. We decided that it might be more fun to sit around and play pool and eat pizza instead of riding. So we hung out at one of the local college bars and wasted the day away.

When Wednesday morning arrived, the clouds hadn't disappeared, but the rain stopped. No matter what, we had to start pedalling. Fortunately, it remained dry for the rest of the day. The fun thing about having Alex join me at this point in the trip, is that I can now see what I was like on my first day. Alex had the same nervous excitement that I had as well the same uninformed illusions of what life on the road would be like. In order for this trip to become our adventure, instead of my trip that Alex is tagging along for, I needed to let him have the space to figure things out on his own. We travelled at his pace, and moved at his schedule. I set our destination for the day, 75 miles away, just to make sure we were far enough from a car rental place so he couldn't change his mind, but other than that, he dictated the day. And he survived.

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